I will admit to you here that I often see characteristics in myself that resemble Leslie Knope. I am optimistic, quirky, detail oriented, a light hearted feminist and overall good friend. I love serving my community with a fundraiser or town hall meeting (although I have never planned an event with a Shetland pony like Little Sebastian). If at this point you are unsure who I am talking about head to your streaming device and search Parks and Recreation.
So why am I talking about this show from way back in 2015? Because of one very important holiday that is almost here! “Galentine’s Day”!
Galentine’s Day
Galentine’s Day is on February 13th, right before Valentine’s Day. The term got popular from “Parks and Recreation,” where Leslie Knope, played by Amy Poehler, celebrates it with her female friends. It’s a day for women to come together, appreciate each other, share love and support, and strengthen friendships. The focus is on platonic relationships and the importance of female friendships, not just romantic ones.
Sure, it’s a made-up holiday, but actually aren’t holidays made up?
Traditions
Growing up Valentine’s Day was a fun family holiday. My mom would save the heart shaped chocolate boxes from the year before and make cute picnic lunches in them. We would have heart shaped food for dinner, often meatloaf and potatoes. My Dad always brought us the kids See’s Candy boxes and we all exchanged small hand written cards and words of love. When I got older and started dating, I wanted the big fancy restaurant, jewelry and roses. I remember one Valentine’s Day I wanted all of that so badly the pressure was on to make sure it was perfect and I was worried my boyfriend wouldn’t plan exactly what I wanted! I look back now and think “poor guy”. He did a good job by the way! He’s my ex…but I digress.
As a mom myself I have started the same traditions I had growing up. No pressure on my partner to be overly romantic, it’s a day of family fun and sharing love. I have spent the past few years at a classroom party at my son’s school and making heart shaped pizzas for dinner. Which I greatly enjoy.
Friendship
However, the other day while in the shower, where I do my best thinking, Galentine’s Day popped into my head, that is when I realized…I don’t see my girlfriends as often as I should. So I sent a group text! “Galentine’s Day, let’s do it!” And plans are made.
I realized I need it more than ever, a chance to hang out, laugh, enjoy food without cutting someone else’s food first, time to talk and relax. Shout out and thank you Leslie Knope for promoting the idea that love and appreciation extend beyond romantic relationships, and the reminder that friendships are valuable and should be celebrated. It emphasizes the importance of nurturing and cherishing all meaningful connections in our lives, including those with our closest friends. Message me below if you want to join me and the girls for Galentine’s Day!
